Dianna Bonny attempts to discredit me to Joan Bonny (Nigel’s Mother)

Dear Dianna Bonny,

I am a veteran Whistle-blower. For over 25 years. Take your best shot, you can point out all my faults over and over. At the end of the day how does who I am change what you have done in your own life. Simply put it does not. If you feel so strongly please file a law suit.

I want to leave you with my Blogging Mantra (spirit in which I blog)

Anything you here about me is true, especially if it is bad…Ha Ha

I resemble that remark ! (good, bad or indifferent).

Dianna Bonny, another Toxic excerpt from child’s blog – “Secret agent mode”

“My dad was on a trip at the time of the phone call, so my mom and I went into secret agent mode. We printed all of the facebook pictures, made a packet of evidence, and when my dad got home we pretended nothing was going on. For a day we let him think that he had again, gotten away with something. That night, I went into his office where I found pre pay for minutes phone, (oldest trick in the book, when are men going to learn?) took pictures, and went to bed.”

This is a prime example of the control that Dianna Bonny has exerted over her children and also shows the extent she will go to, to alienate her children against there late father Nigel Bonny.

Parenteral Alienation, Dianna Bonny the Toxic parent ? In my opinion yes

After reading a blog posted by one of Dianna Bonny’s children (who I will not name), it is totally clear what Dianna Bonny has done. Parenteral Alienation, almost a text book rendition of her actions. A brief excerpt of Dianna Bonny’s, child’s post on a blog :

“The day after he came over he went and played a round of golf, as he usually did. He came home with lunch, sat down, and proceeded to pretend like everything was normal. My mom went and got the packet, slammed it in front of my dad, and told him to “get the (sensored word) out of my house.” Harsh, but fair considering what he had put us through.”

What good mother would put her daughter in the middle of domestic situation like this ? A mother who wanted to alienate her children against there father ?

Parental alienation is a social dynamic, generally occurring due to divorce or separation, when a child expresses unjustified hatred or unreasonably strong dislike of one parent, making access by the rejected parent difficult or impossible. These feelings may be influenced by negative comments by the other parent and by the characteristics, such as lack of empathy and warmth, of the rejected parent. Terms related to parental alienation include child alienation, pathological alignments, visitation refusal, pathological alienation and the toxic parent.

Dianna Bonny’s E-mail to me from another website

Dear Dianna Bonny,

You calling me “vengeful” is like the pot calling the kettle black !

I recently spoke to an 8o-year-old woman, Joan Bonny, in Spain and listened to the hurt in her voice; she wants to know where her son Nigel’s ashes are. Joan Bonny was a very sincere and believable woman.

Vengeful is how I would describe a person who will not tell an 80-year-old grieving mother where her sons ashes are.

As for me revealing my name, look at the Contact Information page. You can even find my address !

As for me being an unhappy man, well that’s not true. I find joy in almost everything. I really do, Including this Blog and all my rights as a blogger.

As for two brothers not speaking, well no one is with out fault, you, me or Nigel. Remember at the end of the day it seems the only thing you forgot was how much Nigel’s family really loved and cared for him. I understand that Joan’s sister even sent you money in your time of need. If what you say about Nigel’s brother is true it seems to me Nigel’s brother was there for him in the end. Can you say the same ?

As for personal information, everything is of public record. But since you brought up, how were you able to recall the two times we met over 6 years ago, for no more than ten minutes.  Sounds like quite an imagination to me !

I guess you don’t like it when some one challenges your integrity.

In your own words “Good luck to you’

Steve