Dianna Bonny – – – Further I request – – – OMG

In an effort to stop this nonsense, I make the following offer:

The post office approximates the cost of sending the ashes to be $100 depending on the method. They cannot be sent to Spain, due to legal restrictions. They can be sent to the UK. A transit form must be filed with the County and I will have to research the cost.

Further, I request that you ask Mr. Barket to post that the ashes are in your possession and agree to cease communication with him, as it is harmful to the safety of my children, your son’s children and your grandchildren.

If this is agreeable to you, please let me know and I will begin the process. Please write a letter stating that you agree to the conditions, date and sign it.

I am the messanger !

MY FAVORITE DIANNA BONNY QUOTE:

“It seems your efforts to lash out at me blind you to simple common sense. As I mentioned to you previously, Nigel met him and said, verbatim, that he was a “very unsavory character.”

“How ironic that you would chose him as your messenger.”

Dear Dianna Bonny I am the messenger !

This site was created for my side of the story; nothing more or less. After your outlandish allegations, I had no choice but to investigate you and your background. In my opinion, your own credibility issues … and of course motivation!!

Sincerely,

Steve

Dianna Bonny claims that Nigel states : verbatim “very unsavory character.” FYI – That would be me !

Dianna Bonny returns Nigel’s ash !

I am also in possession of correspondence  allegedly from Dianna Bonny that are shocking and self serving in my opinion. A few excerpts from Dianna Bonny’s correspondence.

“That being said, your continued contact with Mr. Barket is a troubling circumstance”

 “He is, as you are no doubt aware, breaking the law with his website.”

 

“One only has to google him to get the measure of his character.”

 

 

 

Joan Bonny to Dianna Bonny : stop playing the online victim game !

Joan “Mum with Nigel”

Nigel with MumJoan Bonny address Dianna Bonny :

You will, I hope, never know the grief of a parent who suffers the untimely death of a loved son. Who committed suicide on the same day he received a restraining order containing horrendous lies. Who was served with these papers after he had just left hospital for a prior attempt at suicide.  Whose body was cremated with no funeral. Whose remains have been kept hidden from his mother, sister and brothers since his death in August 2010. Whose memorial tribute website was defaced by you with such vitriolic hatred that his family had to close it for 3 months.

All this is not something which can be described in the flowing language of well-crafted words.

You have now been blogging online as a “victim” for over a year. You have joined a writing club to describe your experiences “factually”. Your blogs have attracted a group of followers who have suffered real emotional hardship. You appear to be creating a cult of people in turmoil. They are all reading your horrible innuendos about my son’s behaviour. He cannot defend himself. I spoke to my son every week for many years. We were close. This is my response, and I have some unanswered questions for you to consider.

Will you let us know what became of Nigel’s ashes? His death certificate stated they were to be returned to me, and you had written to my family agreeing this? We do not even know if he had a coffin as there was no funeral. We asked you when he was to be cremated. You replied “I don’t know. I am far too busy arranging William’s birthday party to bother with such things” You had already served divorce papers on Nigel together with a Restraining Order which contained false allegations of child abuse, wife-beating, intent to kidnap, and stealing $500,000 from his employer. All false, yet served on a man on medications trying to recover from a suicide attempt a few days before.

Why do you behave as if you are the victim? You were divorcing him. He asked you to wait for the sake of the children. You threw him out of his home, banning him from returning or contacting his children, whom he loved enormously. You removed his access to bank credit for his basic needs and impounded his passport preventing him from recovering with family and friends abroad. The coroner found just 31 cents on him which she forwarded to me, along with his sad detailed repudiations of all your allegations on a restraining order you had served on him that same day.

After Nigel’s first attempt at suicide you telephoned both my daughter and myself saying “How DARE he attempt suicide in the best hotel in the area where we are known?” You said “Why couldn’t he do it in some back street motel?” Before he committed suicide one of his friends telephoned you begging you to go to the condo or contact the police and prevent what was happening. You replied “You are too late. He will be dead by now”. The police arrived just 10 minutes too late. We have extensive testimony and written correspondence, including Nigel’s final email copied to you. It was, and still is, terrible to read. Nigel’s death was a preventable tragedy.

 The past will stay with you as long as you continue to blog in public as the aggrieved victim. Be thankful that his insurance has allowed you to live in a lovely home with money in your bank. Please stop your “Fault Lines” survivor blogging in public. You know his family and the many friends he left behind can read them. Your ongoing comments are as hurtful as your public allegations on the restraining order you signed.

 Nigel’s real story is reflected online with a tribute website written by his friends and family. This online memorial was created at the request of Nigel’s many friends as the most appropriate way to share last respects. 

  http://nigel.bonny.muchloved.com/

 For the sake of your children, please, please let their father rest in peace.

 Joan Bonny

Proud mother of Nigel Antony Bonny

 

 

A notice to Dianna Bonny: Joan Bonny also needs closure

Dear Dianna,

As I have read your many attempts to correct your online persona, I have had a wonderful idea.

After hearing an 80 year old woman with a broken heart I have made a decision.

Just as you needed closure so does Joan Bonny, both of you have had a loss. Please give this 80 year old woman the closure she needs and deserves as a mother. It was her son, please consider this an we can all move on.

Warm Regards, Steve

Dianna Bonny attempts to Explain who she is L.O.L.

Dianna Bonny has taken a few steps to improve her online persona. Bonny has created a website diannabonny.org. At the end of the day Dianna Bonny states that she is an “active practitioner of yoga and is studying meditation”.

Wow what the heck does that mean…… Dear Dianna Bonny, if you want to post stuff about yourself start by disclosing the location of Nigel’s ashes to his mother.

That would go a lot further toward your reputation than………”ACTIVE PRACTITIONER OF YOGA AND IS STUDYING MEDITATION”.

That is hard to say without laughing. OMG !

Dianna Bonny attempts to discredit me to Joan Bonny (Nigel’s Mother)

Dear Dianna Bonny,

I am a veteran Whistle-blower. For over 25 years. Take your best shot, you can point out all my faults over and over. At the end of the day how does who I am change what you have done in your own life. Simply put it does not. If you feel so strongly please file a law suit.

I want to leave you with my Blogging Mantra (spirit in which I blog)

Anything you here about me is true, especially if it is bad…Ha Ha

I resemble that remark ! (good, bad or indifferent).