You may have heard of The Ultimate Warrior … well, Dianna Bonny plays well as the opposite. She’s The Ultimate Victim.

But here’s how reprehensible she is, in my humble opinion, in trying to play that role, and here are a few facts about her:
• Dianna Bonny demanded a divorce from her husband, Nigel, who wanted to wait for the sake of his children.
• Dianna Bonny had Nigel’s access to credit cut off and his passport impounded with false accusations of his theft of $500,000 from his employer.
• Dianna Bonny had Nigel served with a restraining order to keep him from seeing her or his beloved children.
• Nigel attempted suicide not once, but twice. He was successful the second time. Dianna Bonny could have alerted someone to intervene. She did nothing. The coroner found 31 cents in Nigel’s pocket.
• Dianna Bonny had Nigel cremated with no funeral ceremony.
• Dianna Bonny held onto the ashes for almost three years after Nigel’s suicide, despite Nigel’s mother’s repeated pleas to have them turned over to her as had been previously stipulated and agreed to. Finally, after years of pleading, Dianna Bonny at least finally did that.
• Dianna Bonny subsequently created a self-help blog around the concept of her and her children’s “victimization” as a result of her husband’s suicide and is trying to cash in on his death by writing both the blog and a book. This is not only ironic beyond belief, this is the icing on the reprehensible cake! Trying to use her husband’s suicide as a source of income!

Dianna Bonny: The Ultimate Victim, indeed.

She plays an Academy Award-worthy role as The Ultimate Victim. Very believable, as all Academy Award winners are in their roles. But just like all the Academy Award winners, what she presents is not real! It’s an illusion. It’s not who those actors really are. And Dianna Bonny, playing the continual victim, presents only an illusion. Her victim-hood is not reality. Don’t buy into it.

Here’s a quote from a letter written by an incredibly strong woman, Nigel’s mother:
“The past will stay with you as long as you continue to blog in public as the aggrieved victim.”

This is from an incredibly emotional letter you should read that relates to all this written by Nigel’s mother. It’s heart-wrenching. You want to know who one of the real victims is in this tragedy? It’s Nigel’s mother. And here’s what she so eloquently wrote a few years back:

Stop Playing the Online Victim!

And I’m just doing my part to help out a still grieving mother.